It’s cheating of Speech Therapy May is Better Hearing and Speech Month SLP T Shirt if this person is actually living double lives. Lying consciously and strategically doing things behind your back over and over again. That’s a cruel and selfish act. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Usually cheaters will kiss you and say they love you as they text someone else the same or meet with them sexually and lie to you about their whereabouts. If they truly love you, they won’t put you through that and break up instead. Even if they were attracted to someone else, they should avoid any emotional and physical relations until they are absolutely ready to let you go in peace. That would be the proper respectful thing to do- break up with the first person, give it some time, and then pursue the other. Yes, you can love 2 people, but 1 will always be greater. Nobody wants to be in a relationship feeling like they are the 2nd best. I mean that’s what makes a relationship special. To be chosen. To be someone’s person. We have to go through few wrong ones to learn & find the right ones for us.